After reading the title, you may think “ok being yourself is nice ,but what the frame and why it need to be broken ?
| Answer : Society ? |  |
Society is a bigger frame in which generally people want to be fitted and even taught as to be fitted . Parents teach their children about social manner , behaviour ,gratitude,rule ,not to take risk,seeking permissions………
And as children grow , they start doing each and every activity inside the frame.{Actually within the frame resembles doing things what you are supposed to do and not what you like to do .}
Even students for choosing courses ,college ,branch……. instead of looking inside the heart and figure out what they really want ,they usually run outside read magazines, contacts seniors , search net to fetch out the best option available i.e one with the best scope . Some of them are luckier and their interests match with scope while others feel depressed , frustrated and are not able to give their 100% during their courses .
College students start smoking /drinking just to be admitted in some group as they don’t want to be called as “Mamma’s boy”.
Many people think that they will follow their heart when they get stabilized (choose what they like to do instead of what they are supposed to do ) , but believe me my friend if you want to break it ,break it today because stabilization doesn’t have a fixed meaning ,for example when you are in college stabilization means a job ,when you get a job it means marriage, after that buying a house ……a long chain of responsibilities so probably you will never get stabilized & continuing living inside the frame and someone else’s life .
For all your actions only you are responsible and its your personal affair so you don’t need to take permission from any one.
people feel more safe and secure inside a frame (as a photo looks safer inside a frame) but we are not a photo that should feel safe in frame .we all have a mind so lots of thoughts , emotions , interests , ambitions ,desires …………
Remember we can be safe in frame (society ) , but we can’t be happy……………….
Remember we can be safe in frame (society ) , but we can’t be happy……………….
Champ Happiness is never guaranteed as said in the USA Constitution There is always a pursuit of happiness. ONLY PURSUIT.
Anyways very good post and a thought provoking.
Keep on posting these stuffs. They will surely help all of us to perform beyond our imagination.
Very good, it is better to be yourself. Some people just look what other people are doing and they do it too because “everyone else do it” Keep up the good work.
I mean no offense and i like your article but if one is not bound to obey the general society regulations then he/she might end up as a criminal or may have a personality disorder.
While i agree that this “frame” does has an impact on our choices and decisions we make ,but they can be disposed of without hurting the general consensus of our community,which would eventually be healthier for both, our “frame” and ourselves.
U r right Vinay…….we ll never get stabilized if we ll think with in the limits of frame……if one wants u do whatever he wants he ll have to b optimistic abt his future which he can do thorough the power of his subconscious mind ….by thinkin tht everythin ll gonna b in his favour………keep posting such inspirational thoughts…….
Rgds
archish
Very Very …….thanks to all of you for reading and commenting,
To Thinker
I respect your feeling.
You give may a new idea of post , I will reply you through post. Kindly wait for that .
To RAHI
There is no unit to measure Happiness and Quest of happiness is life long because there is no limit on Happiness , Nobody tell “ok I am very much Happy now and don’t want it any more” we always in search of more more more …that is why there is pursuit of more happiness , it doesn’t mean we can only pursuit and never get happiness.
We can get happiness but yeah we will always look for more……….pursuit of more Happiness
To Tulnukas
Thanks buddy , For inspiring me for more articles , keep reading and suggesting me
To Archish
I am big fan of your many qualities , but I know you are still in frame..
wat i think in today’s scenario we hav limted our actions taking care off socities reaction,this is a common phenomena
and it generates trends and we r accustomed of following trends,if we think beyond this frame we would be condemned initially but if we get some sort of success ,surely that would be acceptd as a new trend in society.undoubtly we will find peace of soul only when we listen of our hearts.
“Brake the frame,Be yourself”
It is a very nice blog by u ,also it is the reality.
But many of us get afraid to think that how will they trace the path which is unknown till………
They can argue by saying that “To know the road ahead
,ask those coming back”.
but i suggest them that the HAPPINESS of ur life depends on the quality of YOUR thoughts.
……….keep such postings continue….
byee