After reading the title, you may think “ok being yourself is nice ,but what the frame and why it need to be broken ?
| Answer : Society ? |
Society is a bigger frame in which generally people want to be fitted and even taught as to be fitted . Parents teach their children about social manner , behaviour ,gratitude,rule ,not to take risk,seeking permissions………
And as children grow , they start doing each and every activity inside the frame.{Actually within the frame resembles doing things what you are supposed to do and not what you like to do .}
Even students for choosing courses ,college ,branch……. instead of looking inside the heart and figure out what they really want ,they usually run outside read magazines, contacts seniors , search net to fetch out the best option available i.e one with the best scope . Some of them are luckier and their interests match with scope while others feel depressed , frustrated and are not able to give their 100% during their courses .
College students start smoking /drinking just to be admitted in some group as they don’t want to be called as “Mamma’s boy”.
Many people think that they will follow their heart when they get stabilized (choose what they like to do instead of what they are supposed to do ) , but believe me my friend if you want to break it ,break it today because stabilization doesn’t have a fixed meaning ,for example when you are in college stabilization means a job ,when you get a job it means marriage, after that buying a house ……a long chain of responsibilities so probably you will never get stabilized & continuing living inside the frame and someone else’s life .
For all your actions only you are responsible and its your personal affair so you don’t need to take permission from any one.
people feel more safe and secure inside a frame (as a photo looks safer inside a frame) but we are not a photo that should feel safe in frame .we all have a mind so lots of thoughts , emotions , interests , ambitions ,desires …………
Remember we can be safe in frame (society ) , but we can’t be happy……………….